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I like to keep myself busy. I've found I'm happiest when I have a pile of things to do and am working through them, ticking off little achievements to fill the day. I make to do lists for everything and pretty much run my happiest days by them. Days when I don't have something to do are uncomfortable at best.
This is changing, I'm now realizing. Little ones don't live their days against a to-do list, they simply are. Dani, for instance, has been an amazingly good sleeper for months. Now, she is beginning to have a sleepless night every now and then. And last night was my night to stay up with her until around 2:30 am. She wasn't necessarily fussy, she just wasn't tired enough to go to sleep. So we played, we snuggled, I fed her a little bit more formula (hate for an empty tummy to keep her awake), and we enjoyed living moment to moment for several late hours.
Ironically, I had pointed out to Jenni at 9:30 last night that our Saturday evenings used to be just *beginning* at that time rather than winding down. I guess I got what I asked for!
Shortly after my pre-arranged "shift" ended, Dani fell asleep and stayed asleep until morning. It may sound strange, but I'm very relieved that all night long I never felt put-upon or exasperated (which I'm likely to do if I spend time without feeling like I'm really *doing* something). We really had fun being together. It was an evening where the right thing for me to do was to give myself over to being a parent, so I did. Selflessness doesn't come naturally to me, and it's being fun to practice. And having an adorable little girl who giggles as she's falling asleep in your arms makes it just that much more fun.

Partly to get the AFF logo off the top of my blog, and partly because there was a time when I did a wicked Rick Astley. And now you have that damned song in your head, don't you?
Wow. Adult FriendFinder, the leading social network dedicated to sex, just sold. Actually, its parent company, Various, did. For $500 Million dollars. To Penthouse Media.
This was a bit of a tricky sale, I'd have to believe. For a while, it seemed as though AFF would be unable to generate a viable "liquidity event." The thinking was that a sex-based social networking site could never go public (this is probably still true). And Google, Yahoo!, and MSN would never buy it. And the major players in adult media wouldn't buy it either - it was already too huge and would be too expensive. I'm honestly not certain why Penthouse bought them. I'll take a look, but it's possible that Penthouse had already tried duplicating AFF's success and realized just how hard community is to get right. Or, they negotiated the price on AFF down from what it could have been worth if it had been, say, a dating-based social network ($500 Million for 260 Million registered users and 1.2 Million paying users could seem a bit low, compared to the $1 Billion bandied about for Facebook's 50 Million users). Or perhaps the stars just aligned for AFF.
Either way, congrats to the good people at Various on the sale. Way to go!

I broke down and bought Back to Black over the weekend. What a strange reaction - I really enjoy the songs, the performances and the instrumentation, but I *hate* the sound. I have to imagine that what I'm hearing was done on purpose. The album sounds like you are listening to old 45s through crap speakers. But, honestly, the attempt to recreate a Mowtown sound is incredibly distracting. The album is chock full of what we would now consider bad EQ work, clipping, and distortion. Perhaps one could call it "wall of unpleasant noise." May I get a properly mastered and engineered version of this album, please?